Exactamundo. It is one hell of an imposition to ask anyone to raise somebody else’s child. You better have a LOT to offer to balance that out. The vast vast vast majority do not.
Idk about the ‘vast majority’. All it takes is love, understanding and communication. You don’t even need a phone or wifi. Idk. I think if we cut the ones we love some slack and talk to them, idk how they hate us. Unless they are dyed in the wool Marxists i suppose. We have choice too, remember.