Try ignoring the man’s commentary and listen only to what she says. My opinion is based on what she alone said without the added commentary.
When she said her standards are high, she didn’t mention income or physical attributes. She said that, as a single mom, she must be serious when she dates. So, by ‘high standards,’ she means she does not mess around with players. That’s all.
When she said no one is necessarily at fault when a relationship doesn’t work, all she was saying is that sometimes relationships don’t work, that’s all.
You’re all flipping out over nothing.
My opinion is based on what she alone said without the added commentary.
What she says is so platitudinous and undefined as to be nearly worthless. At least: It's not suitable for post hoc analysis.
I am sure that she would melt under cross-examination!
That is typical of female Youtubers: They are intentionally vague on the really juicy facts, and restrict themselves to the "feel-good" sentiments.
We have absolutely no means of knowing how honest she is being. But we can be sure that she will reveal nothing that casts a bad light upon her.
Self-reported info of this nature is next to worthless.
The man's commentary, on the other hand, is priceless. He is so much more rational, so much more nuanced.
When she said her standards are high, she didn’t mention income or physical attributes.
Of course she didn't!
When she said no one is necessarily at fault when a relationship doesn’t work, all she was saying is that sometimes relationships don’t work, that’s all.
Her meandering conversational style was probably intentionally vague. She doesn't want to be "nailed down."
It sounded to me like she said that it doesn't interest her if she caused the relationship to fail.
You are being far too generous towards her.
Regards,
One of the most important rules of the manosphere is to never believe anything a woman says about her own dating history and values.
It is not that they always lie—it is just that they are the most unreliable possible source—conflict of interest.
I would be interested to hear what her female friends have to say on the topic.
Then we would know a lot more about whether she deserves to be taken seriously.