It's NOT that their "men want to pretend they're women" - it's that they're in-the-face rude, tacky, and creepy about their sexuality. Keep it in your clubs and bedrooms and leave us and our kids alone.
It’s unrealistic to think that “what people do in the privacy....” is a good idea. That is a stupid and naive thought.
What they do in private has naturally been made public and children are the natural victims of what is done in the privacy of the bedroom.
It seems intrusive for the State to step into a privacy issue like this, but no when all 50 states had anti-sodomy laws - we were a great nation then.