As Moms Mabley, RIP, once said, “There are so many Chinese they done run out of names for them all. So they just throw up a bunch of silverware into the air, and whatever sound it makes as it comes down is what they call the baby!”............
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moms_Mabley
Talk about jokes that would have black-listed her today.
I vaguely remember her. That’s some background of family history and trauma.
Looks like a lifetime of survival based on ‘laughter is the best medicine’.