You threaten people with eternal hell.
That is like a wife beater telling his wife she is in “denial” for failing to be intimidated by him.
You need to do some deep thinking about what you believe and why you believe it—and who exactly you are serving.
gaslight
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How else to get you into mass. I bet you don't even pray to the Virgin Mary. Then you accuse Catholics of intimidation, why back in the good ol' days they had the Inquisition. Now there was some intimidation. They didn't mess around. Now you'll feel a lot better if you buy an indulgence from Father Nambla and say three Hail Marys. Let's all be friends.