Reality belittles women who don’t understand whatever game it is they are playing, and expect for men to give them an extra break where a man can NEVER expect one. (Like in a political campaign, for just one example.)
(Reality doesn’t just go after women, of course! Lots of men don’t understand, or want to understand, the game they’re trying to play, either, and expect to get a handicap - like Ron Desantis, for example!)
You have wonderful insight. I both congratulate you and thank you for sharing.