wow. My mother’s father was insanely brutal with his kids.
She has been a good mother. I have no complaints. She is 91 and doing pretty well...some memory issues.
But she was never a big hugger or one for kisses hello and goodbye.
Maybe the abuse was the reason. I never thought about it until now.
She didn’t pass down the physical abuse and she deserves credit for that.
I don’t know if she was SAd and dont want to know.
Because part of me says yes.
But what about your mother’s mother.
I am guessing that she was a loving caring mother
I believe in that orphanage there was no caring or affection shown to the children to moderate the abuse.