If a man has not made a commitment to be the provider and protector, the woman is living in lala land. Pretending it means more WITHOUT A COMMITMENT is a fantasy - it’s all in her head.
Men might be lazy, but they arent the ones hitting their forties with no prospects and with that bioclock ticking away.
But keep up the good work. Have a good day.
You seem to be confusing two different issues. Plenty of young, single women who sleep around become mothers long before 40.
The women who remain virgins while waiting for marriage sometimes "hit their forties with no prospects" because too many men expect a test drive before the wedding night.