Women that bear children and accept the patriarchy generally find happiness. Those that don’t are usually miserable.
"Wadda ya want in your sandwich, sweetheart?"
My mother taught me to be patient in my wife search. Growing up, one thing she didn’t verbally teach me: watch out for control freak women. I learned that by observing men’s wives. And I had a striking example with my mother and my aunt.
Though they were identical twins, their personalities were almost opposites. Mom was firm in discipline, but wasn’t a control freak. My aunt was; and it affected her kids to where they really admired my kinder/gentler mother.
As I matured I became good at detecting a control freak chick, even though some were smart enough during the dating/get aquainted time to try to restrain their urge to be bossy. Dated more than one that was very attractive, but would slip up and accidentally display a bossy personality. Deep down they know most guys don’t want bossy girlfriends or wives.