“guy might be a hero in disguise if he’s willing to make a sacrifice to show the stupidity of Planet Fitnesses “gender policies”. The only way this stuff gets fixed is by bringing it to a head.”
The perv will use that for an excuse.
That very tolerant theory goes out the door with the lotion rubbing request.
If you “identify” as a female, then what’s the crime in asking to have lotion rubbed on you? It’s called malicious compliance. Based on planet fitness’s stated policies, this guy did nothing wrong