She needs to ask herself where this girl developed her since if entitlement. Start from there.
I notice one thing.
I homeschooled my kids and they had to pay for all education after high-school. They all did it via college loans which were immediately paid off or training programs and journeyman positions.
Noticed it with friends kid ytoo. The financially successful kids are the ones who paid their own way after high school for their education. They may have been living at home while they trained or finished their degree but they worked and went to schopl.
It is amazing right now just how impossible for young people to purchase a home. This generation will be renting forever.