Please stop.
He was Master of the Lodge and I’m guessing it took him at least 4 years, if he were Senior Deacon first...
Now that I think of it, at least 4 years. He would have to know spoken ritual and floor work to become Master and rise through the chairs and pillars....
He also would have attended a few other lodges in the process
So, more than a few times...
She may have been ashamed of it in some way and wanted to play it down. Freemasonry has always been under criticism. And he may have kept this aspect of his life private.