It was devastating. Some of the things that helped me through it were great daughters, lots of friends (which were mostly hers as I was more reserved), a company who appreciated my work which I dove deep into to stay too busy for depression and a weekly class suggested by fellow freepers called griefshare, which was well worth the time invested even if I was the only guy versus a dozen plus women who completed the course.
I have recommended griefshare often. Great classes. 👍