“I don’t know how some women can forgive the betrayal”
“they just chose to forget that the relationship was destroyed. For money, for convenience”
About 6 months ago a girlfriend of my wife’s did just that.
She went out of state for a wedding and her husband had an affair.....to make matters even worse it was with his ex-wife.
My wife, expecting her girlfriend to file for divorce ultimately decided she would stay in the marriage for the primary reason of his financial security.
Apparently they are more like roommates now as she tells my wife she could never be intimate with him again after what he did.
Also of note is they have both been married multiple times.
In researching that, i found that every time a person gets remarried after a divorce the chance of that marriage ending in divorce increases.
When a person is remarried for the third time the chance it will end in divorce is somewhere in the 70% range.
One thing I have observed about that couple is Jesus is not central in their lives.
I can’t help but think if HE was, they more than likely wouldn’t be in the situation they are in.
Women who have had more than fifteen partners, statistically, cannot bond with a man. Sex becomes a transactional for duty done or gifts or whatever.
...”the body is the tabernacle of the Holy Spirit wind”