When I was younger, single, my first steady girlfriend cheated on me ... same happened with the second ... and they dumped me after they cheated because they did not want to be committed. They should have dumped me first. Anyway, I picked up on the way the dating game was played back then .... all is fair in love and war kind of thing. Not justifying cheating while dating, because if one gets too used to cheating when dating, I can see for many the learned behavior can spill over into marriage when things get “real” or challenges arise.
But once engaged and married ... I was totally 1000% faithful.
i was always faithful too and had plenty of chances.
Being a cheater is not in my mindset- and plus, why would i risk what i had? No way.
My youngest daughter was only married 2 years and her husband cheated with a friend of theirs- “the snaggle-toothed whore” is what i call her, lol.
They are not married anymore, and the whore is long gone too. He’s moved on to have a kid with one girl, and got married again to another girl, this time that marriage did not last a year.
He’s got issues I’d say.
Same-
My 1st, what I thought was steady girlfriend cheated.
It was over in a heartbeat, once I found out. Boy, did that hurt.
Could never understand how one could ever live with not knowing if your spouse was late for whatever reason, or if they were meeting up somewhere w someone, after that kind of betrayal?
Trust is EVERYTHING!
Forgiving that kind of betrayal is bigger than me!
During the Hoover administration?
(Heh-heh!)
Regards,