i was always faithful too and had plenty of chances.
Being a cheater is not in my mindset- and plus, why would i risk what i had? No way.
My youngest daughter was only married 2 years and her husband cheated with a friend of theirs- “the snaggle-toothed whore” is what i call her, lol.
They are not married anymore, and the whore is long gone too. He’s moved on to have a kid with one girl, and got married again to another girl, this time that marriage did not last a year.
He’s got issues I’d say.
“Being a cheater is not in my mindset- and plus, why would i risk what i had?”
Often it comes down to that. If what you have is a shitty marriage, temptation is stronger.
"The common factor in all your unsatisfactory relationships is you."
I have seen the phenomenon with both men and women.
Your daughter’s ex ... reminds me of that song ... looking for love in all the wrong places.
Why risk what one has can keep one inside the guardrails.
The movie ending in the War of the Roses also has two propositions which can be restated a bit .... that a person should consider before cheating - (1) expect divorce will occur because of cheating will be exposed, then get it over quickly, suffer and rebuild your damaged life .... (2) don’t cheat because one should remember why one fell in love with their spouse, go home and rekindle that love. It is difficult to justify a few moments of pleasure for a remaining lifetime of pain and hurt, especially given to others who are victimized - ex-spouse, and children (no matter how old they are).