If they are still working they are hogging the jerbz. If they retire they are worthless takers. If they are around they are "toxic" parents who need to get their own lives. If they move away....
Yes, they can do no right.
Does seem that way doesn’t it. Yet I have done NONE of the BS things they accuse my generation of. Which BTW (to ‘them’ not you) spans enough years for our children to be essentially raised by 2 different ‘boomer’ generations- with very different outcomes.