The first thing a man needs to do when considering entering into a relationship with a woman is the RUN THAT CREDIT CHECK.
Some women just run up credit cards to the max and just bounce payments off between multiple cards and are thinking in the back of their minds that “the” man they marry will take care of the bills.
I dated a girl who was deep in debt. I stupidly gave her money to help but learned she would never change. I never did that again. She was poor but wanted all the good things in life.
Male or female ... Add criminal check too. Awwww heck, just run a complete background check. You might find out your upcoming date is actually married, and has several aliases too.