Not based on my experience and the conversations and comments I’ve heard from men.
Well then your experience is outside the norm. The numbers back up what said and I provided a link to show it.
Not in todays world. There are real world factual data from dating apps that show women are far more delusional about their self assessment dating worth. Dating apps have shown a Pareto Principle for women choosing men, where 80 percent only choose top 20 percent, even when they are not in their league. Some apps are even reporting worse numbers. Millenials have jokes about 49rs, 4s that think their 9s. IMHO the root of this delusion has been generational feminism, exacerbated by technology. (For examples, go watch Youtuber Whatever Podcast, all women rate themselves a 10, when clearly not).