God is good indeed, Norsky!
When I first got married to my PRINCE (LOL)-
every other words out of my mouth was “I’m sorry.”
My ex did a lot of damage you know?
One night hubby and I were discussing something and I said
“That’s just my opinion, I’m sorry”
He said “Dammit! Your opinion may not matter to anybody else, but it damn sure better matter to YOU!”
That really spun me around and it began to make me see things MUCH differently. It may sound harsh when you read it, but he was giving me some tough love.
He really opened my eyes, and MORE healing also began!
You have a smart and good guy.