Well, some would. Many sons have mommy issues. a 27 y/o love/hates their mom cause she is always complaining that he won’t get a steady job and he doesn’t help with and around the house. He think he should live for free and use his mom’s house and a sex pad.
On the other side...mom has man issues. She uses her son as a substitute “man” of house. She doesn’t need a man because she has one..although, he’s kind of a slug...and a poor substitute.
And its starting to become a little embarrassing as he approaches 30...and its all over if he is approaching 40.
He should have been out of the house 10 years ago.
my husband has a client like this- she and her adult son are the “couple” even going on cruises together.
That is weird as hell to me.
“He should have been out of the house ten years ago…”. To where, exactly? 15 years ago I gave a series of annual. Talks to the PreMeds at my state’s major university ASSOCIATED with its Med School. At that time 90% of the people on campus were female. Almost no white males.
So just exactly what were your expectations of Jr.s prospects ten years ago? Is it a mystery why Jr would rather play video in the basement and eat trendies? I commented to another old geezer at the pharmacy a couple days ago, “Look at that kid, stocking shelves and he’s obviously going on thirty. How in the world is he gonna afford a family stocking shelves at Walgreens?”
No, our problems go MUCH deeper than “get a job.”