No lesbian wants to date a man pretending to be a woman and no straight woman wants to date a woman pretending to be a man. And vice versa for gay and straight men.
People desire relationships with men and women, not some in-between fourth rate mentally confused person.
"Chaz" Bono found that out the hard way. She had a pretty cute girlfriend, before she thought that being a "man" would be an improvement. Well, the girlfriend didn't stick around, and now "Chaz" is complaining that "he" can't get any woman to date "him".