With that said, we now know what this person does for a living.
I have never employed a "life coach" but if I ever do it will NOT be one that does not know which bathroom to use or mutilates their body like this.
After this story I have to believe this person's career as a life coach is over.
Welcome to competition......
I would imagine that the main reason the suicide rates increase after one tries to become the opposite sex is because they get very lonely and even more confused. Let’s face it, even the kindest people are going to feel very uncomfortable around them....and it’s tough not to blame them.
It’s because you were designed from you first cell division to be a woman, not a man. You were even told that, but didn’t listen.
This person is a motivational speaker?!
More of a motivational WHINER…
You want to be a man? START ACTING LIKE ONE.
Or go back to being a woman.
Their hormones are not in sync with their bodies.
“I had closer friendships with random women I met in the bathroom at clubs”
Life tip. Don’t try to strike up a relationship in the men’s room. Just do your business, wash your hands and leave.
Someone has to tell her.
Come on….. MAN UP!! Don’t be a crybaby.
A clip of a weeping (woman) has swept the internet, after (s)he cried while saying how much harder it was to strike up meaningful friendships as a (fake) man than it had been as a woman.
James Barnes, who was born female but (began faking being a) male eight years ago, works as a life coach to help others going through life changes. (She) recently opened up about the challenges (s)he’s faced since becoming a (fake)man - especially loneliness.
Breaking down in tears, Barnes said: ‘No one told me how lonely being a man is.
‘I had closer friendships with random women I met in the bathroom at clubs before I (began faking it) because of how open women are, than I’ve had in my 8 years of (being an impostor) because women are just so much more vulnerable and deep than men.
‘We knew what depth felt like before we (became fakers), we knew what it felt like to have people want to hug us, and have people want to talk to us, and have a community.
‘And then you (dress up like a man) and you’re just a guy walking down the street that people cross the street so they’re not near you. And friendships are so much harder to build, and people are colder.’
Barnes, who is also a motivational speaker said while holding back his tears, ‘I also now understand why the suicide rate is so much higher with men, because this s**t is lonely.
‘I (want to believe) am an emotionally matured man, I know how to build friendships, and it’s still really really hard.’
(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk .
Women have zero empathy for men. 80% of men are invisible to them. The only way they get close to seeing how privileged a life they have over men is to actually be one and be treated as one.
And for the record, she doesn’t get how men think, by what she says and wishes for. Men don’t speak like she speaks, we don’t talk about wanting safe spaces, because ever since grade school, we’ve learned there are no safe spaces for men. Also men have no special cards to play to get help. If she had to, she can reveal herself as a trans-man and would receive extra help and extra concern from people/society.
The other woman (a lesbian) who lived as a man for over a year, and wrote a book about it, was so traumatized at the treatment she received by women in that period of time, she wound up suiciding herself.
Or definitely should be
Guess SHE really didn’t feel like a man after all
While there are a lot of stereotypes about the difference between male and female friendships, people are along a sliding scale of emotional neediness friendships. Generally speaking, women’s friendships include emotional support and willingness to confide personal issues while men’s friendships are usually activity-based (e.g., my golfing buddy, my hunting buddy, my drinking buddy, my professional colleague). I saw a meme yesterday which illustrated this divide: a woman asks another woman whether she is getting fat. Her friends says “of course not, you’ve never been more beautiful.” then it shows a man asking the same question of his friend and his friend replies “I know five fat people and you are four of them.”
I happen to be a woman who shares little emotionally and I would never consider calling up a friend and venting to her. I might inquire as to how said friend is doing but honestly I am not that interested in the gruesome details. This drove my mother and sister nuts but I am who I am.
It seems to me, an amateur psychologist, that “transpeople” are probably high in emotional neediness in the first place so this social reality hits them hard. As for whether her role as a life coach remains viable, I wouldn’t be surprised if she carries on. A whole lot of “life coaches” seem pretty messed up with or without being “trans”.
A clip of a weeping transgender man has swept the internet
was born female but transitioned to male eight years ago, works as a life coach to help others going through life changes
The mentally unstable helping others become mentally unstable
For many years, our neighbor’s granddaughter spent the summer with them. We were inseparable. To me she was my twin sister. When she arrived the summer we turned 13, she told me that I was a rival to her new boyfriend. I never saw or heard from her again.
Welcome to reality.
This poor sot need to up the dose of testosterone. The goal is a strong male F.U. attitude. Or go get detransitioned.
The "motivational speaker" is attempting to justify the "cool" attitude most women affect towards most men by claiming that women are "more vulnerable" and "deeper."
Poppycock! This is not Victorian Era-England!
Women are now strong and independent, after all!
So why, really, should women now be any less friendly towards this person than before? (And yes: That's a rhetorical question!)
(I'm assuming that this "motivational speaker" moves in a milieu - maybe NY or SF - where "transitioning" is viewed positively - not in the American Heartland, where random pedestrians will, of course, shy away from freaks walking down the sidewalk - so any "aloofness" the speaker perceives is supposedly due solely to its new status as a "male," and not to the fact that it "transitioned.")
Regards,
‘No one told me how lonely being a man is.’
Poor woman still doesn’t know...she is not a man.
Nobody CAN TELL YOU WHAT YOUR LIFE WILL BE LIKE.
HEY, PUTZ, you make your life what it is you want it to be.
If you can’t handle that, you are a born LOSER.
I shall not bore you with the obstacles I had to face.
Men don’t go to the bathroom to make friends.
I would recommend to anybody in that position, before trying to “transition” into a man, look into Norah Vincent. She went undercover as a man almost 20 years ago, and what she experienced broke her. I can’t speak to what it’s like being a woman, but I know from experience, being a man isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Leftists tend to over-exaggerate our “privilege”.