He worked for the state prison in Hagerstown as a welder/maintenance worker.
They deducted an amount every month that paid for providing for me if he died.
Sometime around 2009 or so he simply stopped paying that deduction and I was no longer covered.
I have no idea how that was done or exactly when.
I was not aware he’d done that until years later, yet he claimed I knew he’d done it when I did find out and freaked.
I did not sign anything to the effect of stopping that protection.
*If* I ever “signed” anything it would have been done so because of income taxes and I thought it was just the general filing jointly paperwork.
I trusted him.
More the fool, I.
I see you have been talking to an insurance adjuster. Passing on this link in case it’s useful to you:
Praying for you.