Most men that I talk to recognize that some women are “no go zones” no matter how physically attractive they might be. And we usually agree as to who those women are. On the other hand, there are women who strongly appeal to some men, but not to others. I saw one of those last week, working in a fast-food joint. She was way too young for me even if I wasn’t in a relationship, but she was extremely attractive to me even though many men would dismiss her as overweight.
I definitely agree with you on this. I for one like a woman with a little meat on her bones. The Ashley Graham type. Most guys have been programmed to consider a woman her size to be obese. You see it all the time on here. Any woman who is not model svelte gets blasted as being a fatty.
I’m a big guy and like a woman who matches that. Not 400 lbs. big, but a cute 5’8”-5’10” and 175-200, with curves. I’m good with that. I’m presently dating someone like that. She’s a little heavier, but very pretty. She’s working on the inches and making great progress. She’s also one of the sweetest, most loving people you’ll ever meeting. That counts for something too.