“He would Venmo her a $50 deposit. “
What self-respecting individual would take a date with someone who asks for a “deposit”?
That is a red flag so huge is hits you over the head as says not only shouldn’t you date this person, block them and never ever communicate with them ever again.
These people are perpetual victims, and even though they see ordinary dates as predators, they themselves are nothing but trouble. There is absolutely nothing good to come out of attempting to be social with them. They are not normal. They are damaged and angry.
I have no idea who would pay some crazy bitch for a date deposit.
I’d tell her to kick rocks.
My dating rules:
We chat first, before I waste my time meeting you. I have found that this saves me a lot of time, because within a minute or two it will be evident that the conversation is flowing well or not. If we’re have fun talking, let’s meet!
But about 75% of the time, it’s a no-go. You can tell a lot from a voice and how a lady speaks. Maybe she has a grating voice, or interrupts you constantly. I did interviews for a living way back, so I’m pretty good at picking up tidbits to ask about and to keep the conversation flowing. Sadly, it’s a rare quality to find.
One recent lady I spoke with, who was a promising prospect, kept asking if I was ‘a Trump supporter’. I dodged the question, because I knew where this was going.
Finally I said, “I support some of his policies...”
Which got me an ear full of what a terrible person he was, etc. I finally said, “Okay, that’s enough. I’m not listening to your name calling and hate, just because of who people voted for.”
Sad, because we seemed to really click. It has become a qualifier similar to religion. Protestants don’t date Catholics.
“What self-respecting individual would take a date with someone who asks for a “deposit”?”
If a woman tried to do that to me I would seriously automatically assume she’s a prostitute.
“What self-respecting individual...”
Simps aren’t self-respecting individuals.