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To: MayflowerMadam
Just as abusive lazy bums who’ve abandoned their babies do not husband-up well.

The bad-boy bums are not going to marry them anyway.

The single moms want the good guys for husbands. The ones they scorned and spurned when they were partying with the bad boys. But increasing numbers of good guys want nothing to do with raising another man's spawn, especially since family courts would likely hit them for child support upon breakup (since the bum likely has no assets to garnish anyway), and are looking for young women without baggage.

297 posted on 08/16/2022 6:15:42 AM PDT by SauronOfMordor (A Leftist can't enjoy life unless they are controlling, hurting, or destroying others)
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To: SauronOfMordor
But increasing numbers of good guys want nothing to do with raising another man's spawn,

Especially when they grow in a peculiar way.

298 posted on 08/16/2022 6:16:54 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: SauronOfMordor

“good guys want nothing to do with raising another man’s spawn”

They are smart men. Of course, every person is different and every situation is different. The reason why a woman is raising a child alone could be absolutely not her fault. Or, it could be.

You said, that “good guys want nothing to do with raising another man’s spawn”.

That goes for good women, too. I have no children, and I had a rule that I’d NEVER date a man with children. Marriage is hard enough without adding the “baggage” and that giant family dynamic to the mix.


300 posted on 08/16/2022 6:32:36 AM PDT by MayflowerMadam (Sometimes when you get to where you're supposed to be, it's too soon.)
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To: SauronOfMordor

The bad-boy bums are not going to marry them anyway.

The single moms want the good guys for husbands. The ones they scorned and spurned when they were partying with the bad boys. But increasing numbers of good guys want nothing to do with raising another man’s spawn, especially since family courts would likely hit them for child support upon breakup (since the bum likely has no assets to garnish anyway), and are looking for young women without baggage.


One of the neighbor high school/college age girls is apparently in the single mom bad boy phase. A couple years ago I noticed she had a habit of bringing home a boyfriend during the day while her parents were out. Now lately I see her putting a baby into a car seat. Baby daddy nowhere in sight. Now what could have happened?


323 posted on 08/16/2022 12:22:58 PM PDT by lodi90
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