I have never been asked if I was vaxed or if I wanted to be. My primary recommended that I get the flu shot but never mentioned the covid shots.
My gyno asked if I have had covid but not if I had the shots. I told her that I have not had covid and she said “great, really?”. I told her yes, really.
Nobody here asks about vax status or even recommends that you get them. Most doctor offices force the masks and ask the usual covid questions. When I went to my derm, the sign on the door said Masks Required. When I got back to the room and the Dermatologist came in she said “you can take that silly thing off back here in a room if you want to”.
If a doctor pushed the covax at this point, I would probably get up and walk out.