Some people are nuts. Sounds like serious passive aggression. I remember a stupid show in which a married couple was fighting because he wanted to go fishing, but she wouldn’t let him because she wanted him to stay home and watch her play solitaire on the computer.
That was a neighbor’wife- she broke all her husband’s fishing poles when he went out once. He had to deliver some horses out a few states over and while,he was gone, she sold his motorcycle and snowmobile on him because she didn’t want him off riding while she was at home. (Funny thing though, she coild go off whenever she liked, which ws often)
He told me once when I was over there - she was on the computer and all you could see was the back of her head, and heaven forbid is you interrupted her. He said “that’s what I’m married to- the back of her head”.
Th3y are no longer married because she felt he “wasn’t paying enough attention to her” lol despite him never going anywhere or doing anything other than being In same room as her watching her on the computer or phone. He put up with that crap for 25 years, then she turns around and shacks up with another guy and accuses my friend of never having loved her
He’s a much happier person these days with a woman that actually loves him. The ex wife’s new hubby thouhg is in for a rude awakening soon most likely.