Never ask your son to choose between you and her... no matter who he chooses, you will be the loser.
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I’ve often had to remind family members that we are not the ones kissing the in-laws on the mouth.
My kids love their spouses and I remind every one that we don’t have in-laws in our family, I have gained new sons and daughters ( goes for extended family as well).
WWG1WGA!
#538 I wish every family was that way.
Married for 39 yrs come spring. My wife’s father is a evil narcissist. Tried to control us from the day I proposed. Tried to ruin the Wedding, did make a mess of the reception.
6 months in he told the wife I was probably cheating on her and she would spend her life supporting Me.
B.I.L. is a momma’s boy. 3 times married...single, 54 and now lives in F.I.L. home after M.I.L. passed and the evil bastard was bad enough to be put in a retirement home facility.
Our lives have been complete hell and turmoil Everytime the drag the wife into the mess to “help with Dad”.
He has hated her since she was born without a penis and looks for a reason to blow his top as my wife busted her backside to do what’s right. He finds fault in everything g she or I do and it’s a cycle ...pulls her in then completely destroys her with vicious accusations, incriminations.
B.I.L. just cowers like a whipped dog and does exactly what the evil bastard demands.
I’ve heard that same advice but slightly different and from a man:
no matter who he chooses, \HE\ will be the loser.