Well if the accounts are true then the son was looking independently at the same time as his mother...so to whom would you assign the most guilt or are both equally guilty of being selfish? Why just blame the mother? The son was looking as well!
If the son was looking, then fine. But WHAT is the point of taking in a baby, when records are supposed to be SEALED and the baby is given his own life with loving parents? How would you feel if you raised a son, who now is an adult with his own family and kids, and you FINALLY had those Grandbabies you waited and longed for - and now some stranger shows up and gets to play ‘Grandma Bountiful’ when YOU were the parents that put in the WORK?
My main objection is disregard for the LAW, and I hate, hate, HATE all this prying DNA testing cr@p. I know of someone that ‘dabbles’ in this Me-23 cr@p and she seems to get great pleasure from blowing families up when secrets are revealed. ‘He’s NOT your Uncle, he’s your Daddy! Surprise! Happy Birthday!’ It’s sick.
Some of us don’t like to see others forcing the rest of us to lose our privacy. And I have two parents, I was not adopted and I never put a child up for adoption. I raised a step-son and two nephews to adulthood. I was every bit their ‘mom’ as the loser, unstable, drug-addled flesh & blood ‘mothers’ they were unfortunate enough to be born to.
I had the same argument for smoker’s rights, and look where we are today on that issue. And I never have smoked. Look at today’s smearing of those that don’t feel they want or need a Covid shot! And the Socialists are JUST getting started using Covid to restrict travel, make us get shots, have passports for just being outside of our homes! WHERE does it end? It doesn’t. Same for abortion and 60 million plus dead babies (a lot of whom COULD have been adopted) being foisted on us like it’s as simple as blowing your nose. And the arrogance of some of these ‘women’ FLAUNTING their multiple abortions! Ghouls!
All of this stuff leads us down the same slippery slope.
And that’s my reasoning and life experience behind my initial statement. Take it or leave it. :)