Oy!
I was on an overnight when I was a crew member and we all met down at the bar for a drink. I left after one and went back to my room. Some stayed behind and the next morning, they told me about a man making out with a woman by the bar. The woman went to the ladies room and the bouncers pounced on her and threw her out of the bar. The man at the bar who had been kissing her ran up to the bouncers as they were dragging her out and yelled, “Leave my girlfriend alone!” One of the bouncers leaned over to him and said “That ‘she’ is a ‘he’ and you have been kissing a dude all night”. The man left the bar without another word, leaving his brand new girlfriend behind.
(and his brand new girlfriend’s behind, apparently! 😁)
I finally figured out why I didn’t notice it myself. It was just dark enough in the bar, and I had already had a couple of drinks before going in there. 😋