You can waste your life however you want. I’m just pointing out you’re a pathetic whiner martyr who deliberately avoided knowing what you’re talking about so you could complain more.
At 73, and with everyone else in my family having died before that age, there’s not much of my life left to waste, so I’ll use my God given right to spend the last days of my life doing whatever the fuck I want to do, and not what some self-righteous asshole thinks I should be doing.