Second, you want something you can comfortably handle slugs with, and a standard 12 gauge with slugs can kick the crap out of your shoulder. If thats you, get a twenty gauge (Mossberg 500 has some good options), or look hard for shotgun with a really good recoil system or an aftermarket stock that has a recoil system.
Even 12 gauge buck shot can beat you up if the gun has little recoil absorption, which most off the shelf pumps wont.
A semi like the mossberg 930 will have less recoil than a pump.
Just like a rifle or pistol, you want the biggest thing you can handle without being intimidated by shooting it.
You can get lower-recoil home defense rounds that alleviate the kick.
Also, if you think it might be used at night (and why not its for home defense), look for a good aftermarket integral light system, something that is built in to the forearm or at least has a separate pressure switch you can mount. There are lots of cheap lights you can rail mount with the pressure switch on the light tail cap. If you fire a shot with your thumb on the light, all the recoil coming back through your thumb is gonna hurt. Dont recommend those.