how come it is ok for Bruce Jenner to “identify” as female, but wrong for Rachel Dolezal to “identify” as black.
https://www.cnn.com/2015/06/16/us/washington-rachel-dolezal-naacp/index.html
Neither is "wrong" per say.
Mentally ill people have been identifying as impossible things since there have been mentally ill people.
You can identify as a supernova if you like. However it is wrong to try to use political and social pressure to force other people to go along with their delusion.