[Spunky]

"I was told repeatedly that it was because of the care— home cooked meals, activities etc that he lived much longer than doctors had expected."

That is what my hubby's doctor of over 30 yrs. before this one told us. If it wasn't for me he wouldn't be here now.

[hoosiermama]

Thank God and some caring people I was able to continue. If you were close I could give you a couple of names. Our local nursing homes often have staff members who either “moon light” or want to cut back. By paying them under the table everyone wins. I actually had two contact me after dad spent some time in rehab. I also stayed a few hours in rehab so they could teach me tricks to changing sheets, moving him etc. if was a great help.
Two neighbors were LPNs and also taught and helped me. I always new they were close if I needed them.
Both stopped by on occasion so I could run an errand.

[hoosiermama]

Can you get a new doctor. And tell them why.