Au contraire, mon FRen. Even tho he's gone, my dh was a man's man. He wasn't perfect-but that's a good thing. You can't have a functioning marriage with TWO perfect people!!
Blu, dearheart, I'm glad to know we're hanging out with the perfect one!
But if he was too flawed, I'm sure you would have cast him aside. Since you kept him around, I would have liked to shake his hand.