[jacquej]

I can only speak for myself, of course.

I prefer confident, focused men, who are reserved and observant. Men who are always bloviating/bragging/posturing really turn me off.

I like the quietly strong man, who listens before trying to dominate. And, a sense of humor about the human foibles and condition gets me every time, particularly if it isn’t unkind.

[little jeremiah]

I prefer confident, focused men, who are reserved and observant. Men who are always bloviating/bragging/posturing really turn me off.

I like the quietly strong man, who listens before trying to dominate. And, a sense of humor about the human foibles and condition gets me every time, particularly if it isn’t unkind.

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Assertive and dominant doesn’t necessarily mean bloviating/bragging or posturing, btw. I know from almost 30 yrs of marriage. :-D

[Bigg Red]

I am with you, sistuh. You description sounds somewhat like my husband.

[stylin19a]

Have read your home page...regardless what kind of guy I am, I’m guessing I’d be focused, reserved and observant.