That happens to me all the time. Not exactly sure why.....
They decided this without any imput from me....I feel like an outsider...I’m actually ticked about this! I may just show up...with nothing but me and see how that goes down.
Understand I had the back seat of my vehicle and the trunk full of gifts and goodies over the years....like another Santa had arrived .....I was told those days are gone now...pfft!