They decided this without any imput from me....I feel like an outsider...I’m actually ticked about this! I may just show up...with nothing but me and see how that goes down.
Understand I had the back seat of my vehicle and the trunk full of gifts and goodies over the years....like another Santa had arrived .....I was told those days are gone now...pfft!
Joking aside, I feel sorry for your bad situation.
If you already have gifts & the goodies, how can they refuse your cheer & goodwill towards them? You might be surprised that some will still appreciate your good heart.
I’m so sorry. Just show up, and next year, if you have other plans, then...