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my wife ended our marriage of 27 years...hooray, i get to move out to my own apartment a week and a half before christmas....what a wonderful holiday season this is going to be...


211 posted on 11/15/2019 7:25:33 PM PST by raygunfan
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To: raygunfan

I’m very sorry for your loss.


212 posted on 11/15/2019 7:32:49 PM PST by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it")
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To: raygunfan

I’m really sorry.


213 posted on 11/15/2019 7:33:16 PM PST by hellinahandcart
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To: raygunfan

I’m really sorry.


214 posted on 11/15/2019 7:33:53 PM PST by hellinahandcart
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To: raygunfan
Don’t listen to all these people who are offering condolences here and acting like this is some terrible thing. This will be the best thing that ever happened to you. You just have to fight to make sure you don’t get divorce raped in court. Hope it doesn’t cost you too much. But the freedom and independence is totally worth it.

Whenever I have the opportunity to talk to a young man who is thinking about getting married or who is engaged to get married I always ask him to ask himself one question the question is “what do I get out of this deal ? what is the upside for me?” Invariably the answer to that question is nothing. All the benefits are one-sided and lie with the woman. So you just have to ask yourself that same question. What was the upside for you in this 27 year marriage? How did you benefit? What did you get out of this deal.? Be honest with yourself and enjoy!!

218 posted on 11/16/2019 7:39:51 AM PST by southern rock
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To: raygunfan

Is she moving into an apartment, as well?

Can you travel or volunteer, during the holidays?

New Year, new you!!


220 posted on 11/16/2019 7:48:12 AM PST by Jane Long (Praise God, from whom ALL blessings flow.)
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To: raygunfan

Also know that if you own that house you do not have to move into an apartment. You can stay or she can leave and move into an apartment. It is actually not advisable for you to leave the house.


221 posted on 11/16/2019 8:03:21 AM PST by southern rock
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To: raygunfan

How ya doin’ out there? Just saw this today.


228 posted on 01/16/2020 3:23:05 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: raygunfan

Are you still active, FRiend?


229 posted on 02/04/2020 11:11:40 AM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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