No one has suggested stabbing them in the back.
That would be attacking them.
Here’s a comparison.
When your parents sent you out of their house and you had to stand on your own two feet, that wasn’t stabbing you in the back.
When video rental shops became too obsolete of a business model and entire chains went under, that wasn’t management stabbing the employees in the back either.
Not getting something provided for you by someone else isn’t the person not providing “stabbing you in the back”.
You sound like a damned millennial.
I get it.
Your PTSD from a war many decades ago in which we lost 380 soldiers killed has rubbed out your sense of reasoning.
You know you could finally get help for that.