And, to be clear, I'm not totally pollyana. As the old movie line goes, some men you can't reach. I am not recommending that we target Berkley or Oberlin as a recruiting station. Some kids have very liberal parents and, well, they'll likely grow up to become very affluent city-dwellers who know EVERYTHING about fly-over country and guns and the forgotten blue-collar worker who perhaps have one child across their three broken marriages, due to concerns about overpopulation.
However, there ARE lots of normal Millenials out there. My experience is they are peeved that the whiners get the attention and cause them to be viewed as losers as well. However, they are also peeved that the 'adults' who should know better, generalize and treat them like a pod eater. Now, they aren't asking for special treatment, but they ARE asking that people treat them like an individual.
I think that's a fair request. I also think, selfishly, that the more of them we snag now, the better off we'll be in 2020.