There is a Jesse Wade Stites in Arlington cemetery.
STITES, JESSE WADE
03/08/1988 01/19/2012
Has a cross on the picture I saw - I initially jumped at that one too. Could be it’s been updated with a new stone?
There are a total of 574 Jesse Records...I can’t get through them all while on lunch. Will dig into it when I get home if someone else doesn’t get to it first.