[Elsie]

Then you know that according to the Order of Christian Funerals, there is never to be a eulogy at a funeral Mass (OCF 27).

Some folks might call this micro-managing; but then again; I can find no Scripture that states just WHAT should be said; or in what order it should be said; at a FUNERAL!

[Mrs. Don-o]

A Catholic funeral is a formal public Liturgy of the Church.

If you want to sing "Danny Boy" and talk about your feelings for the guy, a very appropriate opportunity would be:

• at the funeral home
• at the graveside
• at a testimonal dinner
• at a family memory picnic
• at a private memorial service.

There are plenty of opportunities, and you should take them.

But redesigning athe official public liturgy of the Church is not a private right.

I don't think any church allows you to just use their worship area any way you please.