I’ve played bass since 1998. I’ve been in 14 bands. I really love it. Soloing all the time.
But as a bass player I HATE playing bluegrass. Boring. And if you get even a little fancy the rest of the band complains.
try this the next time they complain about bass playing in the bluegrass group
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fM3HdjhV1Xw
see my post #23