My brother walked me down the aisle,my father died when I was 5-————I still would have liked my father there other then in spirit only.
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My brother also walked me down the aisle some 59 yrs ago. Both my father and step-father were living at the time, but I never felt they were my father from the way I was treated by them.
What a wonderful tribute to your brother, AND honoring your father “in heaven”.