I'm surprised Melania hasn't invoked Marital law, ripped DJT a new one, and made him sleep on the White House couch.
Few things are so motivating or rewarding to a man than to have his wife look at him like that.
Paradoxically, though, that look cannot be given by doting on her, but by public success in the outer world: if you focus on your mission, a good woman will want to accompany you on your quest. If you focus on *her*, to the exclusion of your mission, it will not set her heart athrob.