Better still, learn from the pros how to encourage him:
That's female pro golfer Kristie Kerr, and yes, that's a real photo.
(Given what they say about the LGPA, does she, ahem, *swing* both ways?)
Full disclosure: I don't golf, I bicycle. The legendary Mrs. Whiskers goes on bicycle trips with me.
Is there another thread you can share your man “wisdom”? Maybe privately?