I addressed that in my answer to Jack Black in Post 689 when he asked the same question. I would hope I would make more reasonable demands in my own will if I had that kind of money.
And what constitutes reasonable? What you feel is reasonable may not be what I consider reasonable. Why should *you* decide what is reasonable about what I chose to do with my money?
I've been involved with a fund that was founded to provide full scholarships to young Christian men of good moral character. Of course, those scholarships are now available to females, straight or gay, of any religion or any morality. One of the latest ones went to a young person who was a 'close' associate of their mentor.
My plan to endow a scholarship at my alma mater has ended. If they will not honor my will, I will not honor them with being named in my will.